Blog

3
He was named after his father, Chester, and called Sonny as a youngster.  We knew each other as children because our parents were friends, and his father and uncle worked with my father on many church and community causes.  There was also a familial relationship: his mother’s sister was married […]

Remembering My First

 in Je t'aime / Lives Cut Short by
3
An article about the publication of Je t’aime and the Family and Friends Reunion in November is currently running in BAYONNE: Life on the Peninsula/Spring- Summer edition.  There are a few inaccuracies, including my name being misspelled in the text, but the pictures are great, and overall the promotion is […]

Author Update May

 in Author Updates by
3
  It’s been forty-six years, but I can still feel the shock and disbelief I experienced at hearing the news.  My sister called to tell me she was listening to the radio and heard that there had been a tragic accident at St. Bonaventure University in New York:  a college student had […]
 in Je t'aime / Lives Cut Short by | Open »
2
          This past month was fraught with distractions and mea culpa, mea culpa, I succumbed to the temptations. First and foremost was gathering information for filing my income tax return.  Yes, that was a necessity, but in doing so I meandered down memory lane and got […]

Author Update March

 in Author Updates by
Dear Loyal Readers, We are already into the eighth week of the New Year, and I hope you are all doing well and fulfilling your resolutions.  One of mine was to get working on my second book, which I am pleased to announce is underway.  It will be titled Tears […]

Author Update

 in Author Updates by
5
Growing up I thought my family was rich. My father was a prominent, highly respected leader in our community whose picture frequently appeared in the local papers chairing a social committee, soliciting funds for a charitable cause, or spearheading a civic initiative. Also, each year when the Christmas contributions were […]

History and Horoscopes

 in Je t'aime by
Memorial Service Program Mass of Christian Burial Edward O’Connell Our Lady of Lourdes Church December 23, 2016 10:30 A.M. Rev. Gary Tyman, Presider Nancy DeRycke, Pastoral Associate   Prelude                                       Les Miserables Finale Entrance Hymn                           Morning Has Broken, RS# 859 First Reading                              Sirach                                                    Edward O’Connell, Jr. Psalm                                          Psalm 27; RS […]

A Last Loving Tribute

 in Je t'aime by
1
Looking back over the past year, I see God’s hand in preparing us for what we are experiencing at this very sad and special time. Last New Year’s Eve, Ed’s birthday, our son drove us to New Jersey where we had a fabulous dinner with my brother Bob and his […]

Christmas Letter 2016

 in Je t'aime by
8
THERE IS NO TREATMENT.   THERE IS NO CURE.   IT WILL GET WORSE. The words pounded like a gavel pronouncing sentence.  My voice was mute but a silent scream echoed in my ears.  NO! – NO! – NO! We are not ones to sit idly by and meekly accept defeat.  We […]

The Gift

 in Je t'aime by
1
Last week I had a routine visit with my cardiologist where I learned the results of  blood tests that were taken the week before. All of the readings were right on target:  cholesterol, both good and bad; triglycerides; blood pressure, etc.   The doctor was pleased, and of course so was […]

Weighty Conflict

 in Je t'aime by
1
The Catholic Church celebrates the birth of the Blessed Virgin Mary on its traditional fixed date of September eighth, nine months after the December eighth celebration of her Immaculate Conception, as the child of Saints Joachim and Anne. The circumstances of the Virgin Mary’s infancy and early life are not directly […]

Happy Birthday Mary

 in Je t'aime / Uncategorized by
7
The invitation arrived in the mail in early spring:  Please join us for your induction into the Golden Raider Society in recognition of the 50th anniversary of your graduation from Rutgers University – Newark.   Because of distance we did not attended, but we did celebrate because it was more than […]

Student Prince

 in Je t'aime by
6
Tomorrow, August 12th, would have been Mom’s 98th birthday.  Even though she is no longer with us in person, we will be celebrating because she is  always in our hearts; and we know that now together, after a forty-nine year separation, she is having a very happy birthday with her […]

My Mother’s Hands

 in Je t'aime by
3
There is a calendar on the desk in my writing office with a saying for each day of the year.  Its theme is “Words That Warm the Heart” Quotes by Women for Women.  Some are from scripture, some from literature, and each one is sweet and inspirational.  I enjoy reading […]

Message from Mom

 in Je t'aime by
3
I am currently working on the chapter of the Book that deals with lessons I learned from my Father—there were many.  Most of what I am writing comes from my own memories, but while going through the newspaper articles found among my “buried treasure” –the craft paper to which they […]

Good Citizenship

 in Je t'aime by
4
In any worthwhile endeavor, as in life, it is necessary to have, and follow, a set of rules, standards or guidelines so as not to deviate from the true path.   The original Ten Commandments were cast in stone and given to Moses on Mt Sinai accompanied by flames, earth tremors, […]

Keeping the Commandments

 in Je t'aime by
3
“Do you have the time?”, an often asked question. “Sorry, I don’t have the time”, a frequently used excuse. Yet although each of us has been given different talents and variations of wealth, physical prowess and good looks, the one thing we all have in equal measure is the gift […]

Having Enough Time

 in Je t'aime by
6
The little red light on my answering machine was blinking nervously when I returned home on Tuesday, November, 11, 2014.  Robo-callers don’t leave messages, so I was curious and pressed the “Play” button. “Estelle, this is Jeannie.” I recognized my cousin’s voice.  “I don’t know if I told you that […]

Buried Treasure

 in Je t'aime by
On December 18th, 1958, four days after my nineteenth birthday and one week before Christmas, my Father’s life was cut short by an act of violence.  My Dad was forty-eight years old, an attorney who did pro bono work with Polish immigrants, a loving family man, respected community leader and […]

Time to Get Started

 in Je t'aime by